2009-2010 with the ABC Lions

Each year, during the first week of practice, there are a few things that I like to stress:

1) We are a team that values hard work, technical ability, team ethic, and Christian character.

2) We will be fit, so be prepared to suffer through long runs, sprints, plyometrics and strength training.

3) We will compete against each other but when we leave the field, be quick to give and ask for forgiveness for any wrongs done to each other.

4) We need to have a purpose for our time out here beyond fun, exercise, and winning. It needs to be about character development as Christian, sharing Christ with our opponents, discipline and self-control, and mutual encouragement through our shared fellowship.

Okay, so that's more than a few. If guys don't pick up on these right away, they do later on through our training, our games, and our talks.

Spending 8-10 hours a week with the college guys playing soccer is an absolute privilege. Ever since I was 5, and slipped on my first pair of soccer cleats, I have loved the game. Pretty cool that my parents signed me up for it when they didn't even know the rules. Then they drove me to all those practices and tournaments, and came to watch all of our games at USD in college. Soccer's a big part of how God brought me here to Malawi. It's a joy to share this passion for soccer with the guys at ABC. The great thing is that it goes deeper than just soccer too. We're friends and we're brothers in Christ who will encourage and challenge each other to be more like Jesus as we play.

This past year was probably the most successful that ABC soccer has ever had. Since I've been here, just five years, I've never had such a talented team. Two years ago, we were good, but this year we just got better. Out of our 20 plus games, we lost just two. We play teams from all over; other colles, social teams, village teams, and even professional teams. Since we're not in a league, we set up friendly games for Friday or Saturday and go from there. Though our matches always start late and we never have a good ref, our guys maintain a great attitude and respond well to my very limited attempts at coaching.

Highlights from the year:

1) Going to Bunda College (who have a reputation for being very good and very obnoxious) and hammering them 5-2 on their field.

2) One of guys, Chimwemwe, broke his leg during a game back in October last year. Though is was a real bummer, it brought the team much closer together. Visits to his dorm room, prayer times for him, and helping him get around on crutches were some of our sweetest times as a team.

3) Beating the youth team of a local professional club, the Silver Strikers, 2-0.

4) Prayer times before games with our opponents.

5) At the end of the year, the guys initiated a prayer and worship time for Mondays before training. It came as a result of a few leaders on the team realizing that we needed to keep God at the center of what we do on the field. I was so excited that they brought this forward. We're looking forward to Monday devotions continuing this year.

6) Watching late night Champions league games in the student center together.

7) Pre-game meals in the cafeteria, especially on Friday because beans, rice and mustard-leaf spinach are on the menu!

Lessons learned:

1) The guys don't mind running but they hate pushups and abdominal training. There's only one guy who doesn't mind and he used to be a soldier in Malawi!

2) My guys expect me to play in the game with them. I tried to limit my playing time last yaer, but the captain and vice-captain were quick to ask me to return. I'll be honest, I don't mind one bit.

3) After these games, I realize that I am 27 years old, on my way to 30. I hurt a bit afterwards and usually the next day too.

4) I am much more a player than a coach. I don't always have the answers for our tactical deficiencies, and I can't always make the right subs at the right time. But the guys are gracious and since I played Div. 1 soccer, I guess I'm the most qualified guy around.

5) I'm so grateful for these guys, their commitment to Christ, and their willingness to include an azungu like me in their lives. I am very blessed.

Home in California

Yesterday afternoon we arrived in LAX to an enthusiastic greeting of family and friends! Our parents, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends were there to welcome us with warm hugs and smiles. It is so good to be here. We will be home in Ca for 6 weeks, spending 3 weeks in Riverside and 3 weeks in Northern California with my family. We look forward to spending quality time with everyone and eating lots of good food! We will be going back to Malawi August 8.

More updates to come!

Kellen and I and his parents at the airport.

Kellen and I with some of the Hiroto Cousins at the airport who welcomed us with beautiful cards, song and hugs!

I'm Dreaming of a Green Christmas...

After an exciting Christmas morning with the Spencer family and their eight kids, we headed out to Bright Vision to celebrate with the orphans. We joined them in a festive meal of goat, rice and cabbage and then a game of football. It was a different Christmas than we are used to in the states, but meaningful to share it with the Malawians in this way.

On the day after Christmas, Kellen and the ABC football team had a tournament game in a nearby village. We arrived to find a hard, flat and dusty red football pitch and the village members crowded along the sidelines. It was an exciting and hard fought game, but with bad reffing, a rain storm and slippery ground, ABC lost 3-4.

My super athletic and talented husband also recently played in a golf tournament for the Junior Golf Association of Malawi and won a weekend away for the longest drive (377 yards!). We were very fortunate to be able to drive to Zomba Plateau about 4 1/2 hours away and stay in a luxury hotel for 2 nights. As you can see, we hiked around the top of the mountain and enjoyed awesome
views of God's beautiful creation.


We were welcomed back to Lilongwe today by a massive thunder storm. We enjoyed the cool weather and welcome rain for the crops. Nacho, who is usually unbothered by the storms, hid in the shelf under the table in our living room to sleep in peace!

Happy Thanksgiving!

We are thankful for a cozy night with friends at our house on Thanksgiving. It wasn't the same as being home with family but it was the next best thing! :) It rained in the afternoon and made it overcast and cool just in time to eat. The power went off and on through dinner and it made it all the more unique to a Malawian Thanksgiving.

On Friday at school we had International Day which is a day that we celebrate the cultural diversity of the students and staff at ABCCA. Everyone dresses in their traditional country's dress and brings a plate of traditional food to share with the school. Families come and join in the feast and give thanks to God who has blessed us all so much. Here is a picture of Kellen and my classes! The kids look great every year!

It's Already November!

Things are busy and hot here in Malawi as we enter into the beginning of rainy season. The air is humid and sticky as we wait along with all critters and creatures for the rains to come. The powerful, thunderous rains bring cool relief as they soak the dry dusty earth and shelter us from the intense sun. Soon the Malawian landscape will flourish and come alive with an array of green foliage. It is a beautiful time of year. I enjoy the rains greatly and look forward to their coming the most of all Malawi's weather, yet I do find myself missing the smells and colors of fall in California. I bring out a pumpkin candle to light whenever I can bear the added heat and enjoy the nostalgic smell it brings.

Kellen and I find ourselves busy as ever, balancing a variety of commitments that seek our attention. Kellen is working hard as he mentors, teaches, guides and loves on the high school students in his Northstar program, as well as several 9th graders in his literature and history classes. We had the Northstar students over for dinner and a movie the other night and reflected afterwards how much we enjoy them and the opportunity to develop relationships with them. One of the students commented that they had never been to one of their teachers' houses before and I realized the blessing that it is for us to minister in a small, intimate setting like the academy.

As the Christmas season fast approaches, I find images of little ballerinas dancing through my dreams (literally!) :) Myself and two other teachers have been working hard to prepare our ballet students for their recital in the Christmas Program our school will put on. We are working with 74 girls from the ages of 4 to 12 to choreograph, teach dances and design costumes. Despite all the work it is worth every minute to see the brilliant smiles on the girls and parents faces the night of the recital.

About a month ago, on Kellen's birthday, he surprised me with a puppy! There was a family at the academy whose Maltese had puppies and Kellen took the opportunity to get one for us. (He says that he got the puppy for me, but I know he wanted him just as much!) We named him Nacho. Those of you who are Nacho Libre fans will appreciate his namesake. :) We are definitely bias, but we think he is the best and cutest dog and enjoy him very much.

It's Been a While...

It has been a while since I last wrote an update! Sorry for the delay. As we get closer to the end of the school year things have become more and more busy. In the past month Kellen and I have had the priviledge of going on the 9th grade retreat and the high school retreat. It continues to be a passion for us to love youth and encourage them in their walk with the Lord. We are thankful for that opportunity here.
About a month ago we got a call from Kellen's brother in California to tell us that Kellen's dad had a massive heart attack and was in surgery for a triple bypass. Kellen was at the 6th grade camp about 4 hours away when I got the call and was able to come back to Lilongwe the next day. Thankfully Kellen's dad was in very good shape and he went into surgery right away, avoiding permanent damage to his heart. He was out of the hospital in 3 days, already joking and making everyone laugh. We praise the Lord that he has continued to heal and recover well. It was very hard not to be there with Kellen's family and we are thankful for phone calls and Skype. Please keep Kellen's dad, Chuck, and his family in your prayers as he continues to recover.

Sunrise

I am so often in awe of God's glorious creation that surrounds us. The soft display of a brilliant sunrise whispers God's love to us. What a beautiful start to the day.

Bible Class Sub

Yeah, that was me on Friday for the high school students. So yea, I teach ninth grade World Geography and US History to some high school kids along with doing administrative stuff for the older grades. The Bible teacher for the fourteen 10-12 graders was actually gone with his family in South Africa because his daughter was very sick. Thankfully she's recovered and they're back in Malawi. Well, in his absence, Lorilee MacLean who takes care of the high school kids and myself filled in for Bible class. The class is focused on the Christian worldview. Lorilee took a day to talk about finding and following God's will. It was really good. I was taking the Friday class and we were taking a look at dualism; our world's tendency towards splitting our coprorate and individual lives into different compartments that are either secular(God's not concerned about this) or sacred(falling within God's dominion). I grew up with this idea, that God wasn't all that concerned about my behavior on the soccer field, or the material that I studied in school. My personal beliefs didn't belong in certain public categories. I knew that God wanted me to be a good person and treat people with love, but I didn't catch that God wanted absolute Lordship of every part of my life. So we read some commentary from a guy named Ken Boa on the problem of dualism and the Biblical philosophy of integrating God's Truth into every part. We split into groups, each one given a couple areas of focus. We had areas like school, entertainment, family, friends, how we dress, etc. The hope was to get into what, why, how of all these areas, discussing how we would DO these areas of our lives if Christ were standing right next to us. The kids did a good job, and I did some prodding, to help them towards questioning what they're doing now, and what God would like them to do. We had an extra long Bible class, an extra hour, but I hope that it was worth it. It's one of the mysteries of teaching, especially in a Christian school. You sometimes can't detect a change that can only happen in the heart and soul of your students. There may not be a measurable or detectable change in the heart of a child who has given more of themselves to Christ. But that's where we trust and hope and believe that God grows the smallest seeds sown. That's what I'm hoping for in all of our students; that they love God with all their hearts, all their mind, with all their soul, and all of their strength.

Goal!

Yesterday in a soccer game between ABC and Kaninga, Kellen scored the tying and only goal for ABC in the last three minutes of the game. It was a corner kick and he was pretty excited since as a defender he doesn't get shots like that very often. What a studly husband I have!

Our New Blog

Welcome to our blog! I had never seen a blog before, let alone had one of my own before this, but I am looking forward to posting pictures and updates on a regular basis. Keep checking up on our page. I will be updating it soon!